long time ago, a young China named Li got married and went to live with her husband and mother. After a few days, could not understand her.
Their personalities were very different, and Li was irritated with the habits of the mother, who frequently criticized. The months passed and Li and her mother ever discussed and fought over.
According to an ancient Chinese tradition, the daughter has to take care of the mother and obey in all things.
Li, bearing no more live with the mother, decided to make a decision and visit a friend of his father.
After hearing it, he took a packet of herbs and said, "You should not use them once to get rid of your mother, because this would cause suspicion. You must take several herbs that will slowly poison your mother. Every other day put a little of these herbs in food.
Now, to be sure that when she dies no one will suspect you, must be careful to act very friendly. Do not argue, help to solve their problems. Remember, you have to listen and follow all my instructions. "
Li said
" Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do what God asks of me. "
Li was very happy, thanked Mr. Huang, and returned a hurry to begin the project of killing his mother.
Weeks passed, and every two days, Li served as a specially treated food to her mother. I always remembered what Mr. Huang had advised about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed his wife's mother and treated her like her own mother.
After six months, whole house was completely changed. Li had controlled his temper and almost never hated.
In those months, had not had an argument with his mother, who now seemed much kinder and easier to deal with it. The attitudes of the mother also changed and began to be both mother and daughter.
One day Li was again in pursuit of Mr. Huang, for help and said
"Dear Sr.Huang, please help prevent the poison from killing my mother. She has become a nice woman and I love her like my mother. I do not want her to die because of poison I gave him. "
Mr. Huang smiled and nodded:
"Mrs. Li, is not to worry. Her mother has not changed, that changed was you. The herbs I gave him were vitamins to improve their health. The poison was in his mind, his attitude, but was thrown out and replaced by the love that you went to give it. "
In China there is an adage that says
" The person who loves others will also be loved. "
Most often receive from others what we give. Always remember: "The plant is optional, but the harvest is mandatory so be careful what you plant. "
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